You know what we're about to dive into, right? No?! Well, if the title didn't give it away, I don't know what will. We're talking about relationships. Whether it's with your partner, someone you're dating, or your best friend(s), we all go through ups and downs.
There are moments of conflict where disagreements arise, and let's be real here, sometimes hurtful things can be said. But is it ever okay to dismiss the other person's feelings and just focus on our own? Nope, not at all.
Over the years, I've come to realize that having meaningful conversations and creating an open space to express emotions and truly listen is far better than simply waiting for your turn to speak. It's perfectly fine to feel how you feel, but it's all about how you approach it.
I must admit, I'm guilty of bringing up serious conversations at the most random times. My timing can be horrendous—I'm working on it, though, haha! But the important thing is to acknowledge that being open and discussing our feelings is far healthier than bottling them up and saying nothing. However, it's up to the other person to decide how they'll react after the fact.
So, what happens after a conflict can either make or break the relationship. And honestly, sometimes you may not find a middle ground right away or ever. What truly matters is that both of you know you're there for each other, through the ups and downs (pun intended).
Now, I'm no relationship guru—I'm still learning, especially from the less-than-stellar relationships I've been in. But I still hold onto hope. Despite how rough things can get, we can make it through.
If there's one thing I've learned, it's that the right people who enter your life never leave in a negative way. If they do have to part ways, go on a different path, or exit your life, it's always out of love and care, never with ill intent.
So, through the thick and thin, the highs and lows, I love you, and I hope we can go the extra mile and beyond together.